Find your best time to listen.
Jesus rose early in the morning, often seeking solitude to connect with God. You, too, can learn to become an early riser, but for those whose mornings begin with children hearing their first breath upon waking, early mornings may not be your best time for uninterrupted quiet time. Lunchtime, evening walks, or a few moments before bed might be better opportunities to listen if those times allow you to be present. And if trying to do a Bible study first thing during a hectic work week feels overwhelming, that’s okay. Save that in-depth study for a slower Sunday, when you can be fully attentive. Instead, you can dedicate your mornings to worship and praise. Rejoice in God as you prepare for the day ahead, offering up your heart in gratitude. Remember, as seasons of life change, don’t be afraid to ebb and flow with them; your time with God will adapt too.
Make God your first thought in the morning and the last at night.
This is a very intentional act of worship. Waking up and immediately thinking of God’s grace and mercies—new every morning—can help guard against the anxiety that often comes with a long to-do list. By starting your day this way, you’re acknowledging the true priority in your life. Before thinking of yourself or your plans, make space for the One who created you. At night, slow down and reflect on the day you’ve been given. Thank God for His guidance and provision, and pray for His blessing on the next day. I always end with a simple “I love you,” a way to close the day with affection toward my Creator.
Use your commute.
Being on the go often creates pockets of time when you can focus on God, whether you’re sitting in a car, riding the bus, or walking. If you’re alone on a long road trip, try listening to the Bible on audio or turning off the music to engage in prayer. Even while stuck in traffic, those moments can become opportunities to talk with God or reflect on His presence. Whether it’s your entire commute or just a few minutes, all time spent with the Lord is precious.
Sit in silence.
Listening for God doesn’t require an empty, soundless room, but making space for silence can help you become aware of His voice. We often don’t realize how much we use noise—TV, music, conversation—to avoid deeper thoughts. Silence can bring clarity, revealing the things you’ve been avoiding bringing to God in prayer. Try waiting ten minutes after you get home before turning on the TV or sitting in your car for a few moments of quiet before greeting your family. In that stillness, imagine resting your head on Jesus’ shoulder, finding peace in simply being with Him
Notice beauty.
“In His hand are the depths of the earth; the heights of the mountains are His also. The sea is His, for He made it, and His hands formed the dry land” (Psalm 95:4-5 ESV). God’s creation surrounds us, and His presence can be felt in nature, art, music, and even the small joys of life. Take time to immerse yourself in the world around you. Notice the flowers blooming, the stars twinkling, and the gentle breeze on your face. Enjoy a meal by candlelight with your family, appreciating the simple beauty of being together. Romanticizing your life isn’t about making things beautiful for your own satisfaction, but rather about recognizing the beauty God has placed all around you as a love letter to His creation.
Intercede.
In the hustle of modern life, it’s easy to become self-focused. But in your prayer time, make room to pray for the world around you—for your community, government, and those God has placed in your life. Slow down and intercede for others, asking for God’s love and grace to touch those you encounter throughout your day. As you run errands, pray for the people you pass. During your break at work, take a few minutes to pray for your coworkers. By making this a habit, you extend God’s love beyond yourself, aligning your heart with His purpose
